We judge people. What clothes they wear, what job they do, how much sugar they put in their tea.
Judgment comes from an upbringing in society which puts moral values on what is right and wrong. Our parents, teachers and institutions around us want us to decide the right choices to become the right sort of people.
Whilst well-intentioned, these moral values are generally placed upon us, rather than formed by us as individuals.
Fortunately, there is a way forward. The first step is an acceptance of others and how they want to live life. But I also think there is a greater step. We can decide to reshape how we view the world, and how we live by our own values.